Forever in our ARMS on March 31, 2008
Life is really going to be interesting now.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Laptop Converters/Adapters for Dummies
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Packing List. I will pull out the suitcases in Feb!
Well I'm pretty sure I'm going to need a lighter suitcase. We're still waiting on our TA, I'm really hoping for Friday and praying for travel the week of the 10th!!!! I would like to get to Beijing a day earlier than we have to. I just read a blog where something happened and they were delayed somewhere. They would have to put me in a stright jacket, and what if they loose our luggage, that one had not crossed my mind until right now. Can we add that to our long list of things to worry about.
Just got a really neat website (blog) from another parent (thank you so much). http://www.the-ergo-lady.com/ergo-baby-carrier/
This will help me figure out the best way to use my carrier.
02/27 FYI - I still have not figured it out!!!!!!! We are getting Little Man a week from Saturday, so I'll have to do it then.
Packing List . . . . OK, alot of this I put here as I see it and want to remember. No, I'm NOT a lightpacker, in fact, I'm way way on the other side, but I do plan on doing my best at packing light for this trip. I also want to make sure that I have everything Grace may need.
I didnt want you to think I would pack EVERYTHING I put on here. Well I might, and DH just informed me he would be going through our bags and he thought he would be fine with just his one carry on. Yeah, not in my house BUD!
As I continue to read all the Yahoo groups, I'm keeping a list of what came in handy, what people wish they had with them, what they wish they had left! The key is packing light, those that know me, know I suck big time at that. I'm always Over packed! I must be prepared. Must, I just cant help it.
02/27 Well I dont see that changing, I keep going into the dining room where everything is and all I can say is oh my! I can see right now, this packing thing is going to get me for sure.
I just read where someone suggested (and what a great idea) you take clothes that are ready to be tossed (or you got really cheap somewhere) and dispose of them as you wear them. This will make room in your luggage for the items that you bought.
02/27 that wont work either, since I'm growing out of my clothes :( I hope chasing a toddler will help me loose it QUICK
http://www.orphanallies.org/pediatricmedicalkit.html Medications
02/27 I saw Gracie's dr today and he gave me two meds in case I need them. I was very leary of all of these meds, I dont want to over dose her, I still need fever med and cold stuff.
Someone suggested using packing cubes - http://www.travelsmith.com/jump.jsp?itemID=1720&itemType=PRODUCT&RS=1&keyword=packing+cube
she also suggested travel socks ?
http://www.packinglight.net/plight/dept.asp?s_id=0&dept_id=3040&WT.svl=deptnav2
*Note: If you keep yourself VERY well hydrated, body, skin, eyes, and nasal passages, you can avoid many illnesses on long flights! Pack a flight care package to carry on the plane with you. Include Chapstick, Moisture Eye Drops, Face Cream, Sudafed, and Nose Spray (Afrin & Ocean). Nerve Pills - I'm already getting antsy!!!!!
Luggage (one carry money, one passports and paperwork in carryon) In Carryon - pack one change of clothes for both of us, meds, camera, paperwork, laptop
Me - 1 large to check, 1 carry on (backpack) and her diaper bag on way back
Him - 1 large rolling duffle to check, 1 carry on and laptop ???
Her - one backpack with a few toys
Be light!!!!! should take one change of clothes (maybe meds) in carryone
Suggestion to buy there - A large duffel for clothes - put souvenirs in luggage. Leave unused meds at Jennifers Place
Those in Red I have
Paperwork
Copy of Dossier
Addendum to dossier
Brown Envelope did not receive this, not everyone does
Passports (w/ Visa inside)
Airline tickets
Cash (ordered) and credit cards
Money Belt
copies of itinerary
passport photos of each (originals)
original I-171H
original referral
notebook w/emergency numbers and email addresses
fax/phones#'s for doctors/med.insurance
travel insurance
list of questions for CWI & orphanage director - You will forget
ask for western mattress at WS
Adult Meds / Supplies
Antibiotics (Z-pak) got script
Lomotil (?)
Tamiflu (?)
Advil
Antibacterial wipes / liquid
Tissues
Sinus meds
Jet-lag meds
Alcohol wipes
Peroxide
Neosporin
Benadryl tablets
Benadryl (liquid)
Benadryl (cream)
Saline spray
Cold/Flu/Allergy meds (w/cough)
Cough drops
Vitamins
Airborne (or Shaklee supplement)
eye drops
Tums
Pepto Bismal or Immodium tablets (chewable)
lotion
tweezers
nail clippers / nail file
Cipro
Laxative (?)
sleep aids (Ambien?)
first aid kit (bandaids, etc.)
Prescription meds (Paul & Peg)
Pain meds
Baby Meds / Supplies http://www.orphanallies.org/pediatricmedicalkit.html
Antibiotics
Pink eye drops (?)
Digital thermometer (oral and underarm)
Mycelex or Lotrimin (?)
prescription excema cream
Baby lotion
Baby sunscreen _ I have some but I dont think I need it
Pedialyte (powdered)
Baby Tylenol / Advil / Motrin
Baby Benadryl
ear ache medicine
Cold / cough meds
saline spray
baby nail clippers
lice & Scabies meds (Elimite)
dosage spoon / cup
hydrocortisone
Dramine
Senekot (for constipation)
Adult Toiletries
shampoo / conditioner
deodorant - both
lotion
lip balm
brush
blow dryer
curling iron
q-tips / cotton balls
toothbrushes / toothpaste
razors
shaving cream
tweezers
tampons / liners
make up
sun block
bug spray
travel hairspray
toilet seat covers
face wash cloths
Miscellaneous (ok, I cant figure out why it does this spacing thing)
Carry on for Gracie - Red one with ladybugs
Carry on for Paul
Carry on for Peggy - my Christmas present from PaulRay
Lap top computer - we really need this to keep in touch with our boys and at night when she is sleeping.
digital camera
extra batteries, charge and rechargeable batteries
reader for memory card
extra memory card (2)
tissues in small packs
extra batteries - make a list of what needs what
batteries (3 for camera) / chargers / memory cards (need one more)
GPS
cell phones /chargers
converter / adaptor (nightlight to check these out)
*Ipods / headphones
split headphone
small diaper bag
luggage tags
travel pillow/blanket 2
calculator
money/passport holders
plastic utensils
clothes pins
sunglasses
dish detergent or dawn soap pads
ziplocks
cleaning wipes
ear plugs
luggage strap (colored)
luggage locks
disposable snack containers
duct tape flat
Downy wrinkle release
thermos
special book to sign
travel toilet paper
small flashlight
Chinese for Adoptive Parents (book?)
Chinese language card
small sewing kit
travel bible
books / mags to read
Attachment book / info.
China travel book
printed out numbers for Guangzhou places
note pad
See through plastic paper holder (per CCAI)
travel journal - ink pad for foot and hand prints in china
laundry detergent packets (bottle of woolite)
phone number/email for Ann (shopper)
calling cards / China cell phone
plastic sheeting (for under sheets)
clothesline
gum
mailing tube for art work ???
baby carrier ??? She is 28 lbs, I'm thinking I'm going to try and sell it. Nope, DH said keep it
Pencil Pouch w/ paper clips/ pens / rub bands / folder for documents
glasses / cases
flash light ( small )
travel clock this was a very nice Christmas present from a coworker.(thanks Holly) you can even store digital pics on it.
Food
water bottle packets
cheerios / gold fish
peanut butter packets
cup 'o soup
pop tart
bag of candy to hand out to kids
baby fruit (4 pack)
baby prunes
dum dums (suckers)
grits packs
Adult Clothing take 5 outfits each (No White T Shirts - white means death in china)
Walking shoes
Extra pair shoes
Jacket
shirts (long/short)
pants
PJs
unders / bras
socks
bathing suit
Baby Stuff http://www.orphanallies.org/pediatricmedicalkit.html
stacking cups
Diaper bag
baby wipes (huggies purse size and large pack - no napkins are given at restaurants)
baby shampoo
little brush / mirror
baby blanket
lovie / lilly frog
inflatable beach ball
bubbles
board books
magic doodle
slinky
small see n' say
her ladybug backpack
playdough
coloring book/crayons
CD player
her CD's
toy cell phone
sippy cups (2) (soft spout)
diaper disposal bags (scented) in case she gets sick from car/plane ride
baby toothbrush/paste
DVD Player / for long ride home ???????? just dont know if it would be worth it
bibs
Baby Clothes
8-9 outfits
PJs
Jacket / sweater
bathing suit
socks
tights
hats
plastic pants / pull up just in case??????
hair bows
shoes
slippers
Gifts
Red Envelopes
Red gift bags
candy (Hershey minis) for maids/kids
for the ladies I got Bath & Body Works Body Lotion (Sweet Pea)
thinking about coffee for the orphanage director
Monday, February 25, 2008

- baby books
- Baby carriers - http://www.ergobabycarrier.com/: MAS66421
- Car Seat - Britax Marathon http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2934996
- 2nd Car Seat - for dad or babysitter, etc (up to 40 lbs)
- Stroller - So far I like this one the best - Quattro Tour Stroller - Windsor (TRU) http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2266282&cp=2255957.2273443.2255983.2256189.2256204&parentPage=family
- :) Umbrella Stroller - DONE Kolcraft - Okie Dokie Ladybug Stroller (Bonny)
- Rocker/Recliner for family room
- Glider Rocker for her bedroom
- toddler bed
- mattress
- dresser- ordered
- armoire wont be needing this
- night stand
- Toybox
- high chair
- thermometer -
- Radio Flyer Wagon (for those longs walks to see her mamma and papa)
- Thermos (to take to China) http://www.thermos.com/Product_detail.aspx?CatCode=THER&SubcategoryID=1&ProductID=277
- hamper
- lamp
- Comforter (crib) set
- SHOES, SHOES and more shoes - planning on buying several while we are there. I said something about squeaky shoes and DH was like what are you talking about :)
Sunday, February 24, 2008
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Disappointing Week
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Our Perfect Day, NOT!
So off to the skate room, Uncle Paul Ray helped him get his skates on, while PaulPaul and myself got ours.
To say he was a little unsure of what we were doing, would be a fair statement.
He got this look of fear about the time we hit the floor. He decided right then and there, he wanted no part of this nonsense. There went my perfect day.
We put him back on the carpet.
He got the hang of falling, just right.
And landing on his butt!
Oh, and do you see that mark under his eye, that is from running into the tree. Thanks PaulPaul.
Well I made it up to him by taking him to Chucky Cheese, he was happy with that. What was I thinking, that place is wall to wall of nothing but kids! I like them in small doses.
OK, I put one of the videos on you tube of him trying to skate. Not sure why the link came out like this.
Quick Update.........
Saturday, February 09, 2008
Mom's Ramblings
Friday, February 08, 2008
Ladybugs Everywhere!

Here is a shot of the gifts laid out. It is a sea of Pink! I love it. Gracie got such nice things, and such pretty dresses, oh and she got two pair of pants also. And yes, that is a fishing pole you see, thank you Willie very much. Her daddy thinks she should wear her camo home (off the airplane), Now Ms Liz and Ms Betty Ann I love them very much, but she needs something a little more approiate for the event. I may have to hide those (like I had to hide PaulPauls hat when he was a newborn because his daddy said his head looked funny and always wanted him to wear that hat - sorry, got off track). Anyway I want to thank everyone for coming and being so generous, I know that Gracie will love you all so much.
I really can not wait to dress this little beauty up in all these clothes.

How cute is this picutre frame. Mrs. Craven got this, I love it, thank you. And thank you for helping Bonny with the shower. Her sister in law Debbie also came and video taped it for me, I still havent had a chance to watch it yet. Her neice Stacy Nicole also help, thank you, you know I love you.
Her is me with my very excited mother about having a granddaughter.
Stacy Nicole made this, it's very appropriate, because my dream is coming true.
here is me with Ashlee Gail (Bonny's daughter)
My mom bought this dress, it has a matching doll dress, how cute.

These match her bedroom set.
Can you tell the stroller has ladybugs on it.

I was trying to download some more, but blogger decided to act up.
Anyway, Bonny, thank you so much for the shower and all the wonderful gifts you got us. I cant wait for us to take Gracie for tea.
Thanks to everyone for everything, I am truly blessed to have such great people in my life.
Gracie, it wont be long now baby girl.
Monday, January 28, 2008
Travel Packet II
Thursday, January 24, 2008
I have come up with an idea for a swap as I have been walking around at the Mall lately. I think it would be fun to do a bow swap. I think it would be nice to trade names with 2 or 3 other people and send a couple little bows totalling no more than $10. I don't think the postage would be much either.If you would like to participate, or if you would like to let others who read your blog about it, please send me an e-mail at npoellot24 at yahoo.com. My goal is to get names out and try to get this going be early Febuary.
I am also thinking about doing a swimsuit swap for the summer.
Chinese New Year
Monday, January 21, 2008
Parties / New Puppy / Registered
His chair and Little Mans Chair
You may think he wants the cake, but he wants the train on the cake.
Hmmm, but the cake was good to.
And Yes, he is using his train as a spoon.
Nope, not ours. Chris & Erin finally got the boys a puppy of their own. They love dogs. Meet Tana (Short for Hannah Montana). She is a sweet dog.
Now, I finally got registered for my upcoming shower which is on 02/02 (my Daddy's birthday)I don't know how long Bonny and I were in the store, the day was wet and cold. We thought we'd be the only person in the store on that kind of day, WRONG, but you could say I was the only mom registering that didn't look like she was ready to pop!
Some things on the list I plan on getting myself (the big things) but it took me so long to pick those out, I had to make a decision and be done with it, so when I go back I can just order the furniture and not look anymore. Do you know how many choices you have in a store like that. Whew!
Babies R Us
http://www.babiesrus.com/ControllerServlet?registryNumber=71411773&target=search
I need to get to the store and get some books to get started on her baby (life) book and her quilt book. I was hoping to have her quilt done before the shower, but that's not gonna happen. I need to start that. I was hoping to have some time to breathe before we go get her, but I don't see that happening. Hopefully I'll be able to take a week off before we go to China, but we'll see.
Paul Ray starts his new job tomorrow, lets everyone say a little prayer for him. I know he'll be happy there once he learns his way around.
Now, I've really got to start exercising and loosing some weight!
Have a great week.
Friday, January 18, 2008
Mardi Gras at the Omar Shriners Ball
Monday, January 07, 2008
(Those in Blue Are Done)
I'm sure this list will continue to grow.
- Finish the Paperchase YEAH!!!!!!
- Print out and put at every phone "The Referral Call" questionnaire
- Child Proof our House
- Continue to shop for "Princess Gracie" This is an ongoing thing, It wont ever end.
- Continue to gather fabric for her "100 Good Wishes Quilt" Have Quilt put together
- Buy things for the orphanage (my mom just bought 5 very cute outfits for this)
- Decide on theme for her room
- Paint, Decorate, and Supply her room
- Learn Chinese
- Learn the lullaby "Mama Hao" ("Mama is the Best" in all the world)
- Prepare a Care Package to send to Gracie (if possible) after referral, make sure to include Family Album and Disposable Camera
- Order Adoption Magazine
- Design/Find/Order Adoption Announcements
- Decide on a Pediatrician, Dr. Bruce Etheridge, he is so sweet, in case you're looking for one
- Find a babysitter/caregiver and a backup when I'm at work (3 days a week)
- Continue to read about International Adoption
- Once we get a referral, track down and buy copies of local/international newspaper
- Prepare a list of questions for caregiver or foster mom
- Join and get involved with local FCC
- Stock up on diapers and wipes - Wont Be Needing These
- Get in shape. Loose 20 lbs. Start carrying 15 (BETTER MAKE THAT 20 NOW) lbs weights
- Start a Journal
- Build a website for everyone to follow
- Start a lifebook for Gracie
- Learn how to use camera and video camera BEFORE leaving, Mama got us a new one for Christmas
- Research, choose, and buy a car seat, learn how to use it
- Research, chose, and buy a stroller, LEARN how to use it (the first time I took little man to the mall, I seriously could not close the thing. Good thing I was in the Explorer or his mommy would have had to come resue us!!!! They have changed since mine were little.
- Buy an EXTRA special outfit for her to wear home
- After Referral, Research Graices province
- Research post-adoption tasks (birth certificate, re-adoption, SS card, child's new passport
- Join adoption networks (I am on 13 Yahoo Groups-lost count now )
- Address baby announcements before leaving
- Make a list of everything we need for Gracie!.
- Register at Babies R Us, Target and Amazon for her books
- Get a Rocking chair (leather recliner) for front room and a Glider Rocker for her room
- Take a Vacation with DH before Gracie comes home.
- Practice reposnses to Dumb Questions "Is she your Real daugher?" I hope I never have to deal with this.
- Choose Godparents/Guardians
- Start a list of what gifts to take to China (officials, caregivers, etc)
- Put a stop on mail and newspaper
- Make sure we have lots of crisp bills (This is Aunt Erins:) Job)
- Take a seminar in Adoptive Parenting
- Set up appointment with Dr. Etheridge/Dr Boatwright for a few days after return
- Send out Thank You's
- Make a list of what gifts to bring back (Tea Set for Gracie)
- Start a packing list (make sure have enough of meds)
- Start / Finish packing for us and Gracie
- Make arrangements for bills to be paid (online)
- Make sure house is spotless before leaving.
- Service Car before leaving
- Make arrangements for food to be in house upon returning
Saturday, January 05, 2008
Ramblings and Such
Friday, December 28, 2007
1. (March, 2006) Paul Ray, "Well you can adopt" Joking ???? Maybe
2. (March, 2006) Adoption is on my heart!!!!
3. (April, 2006) Momma & Daddy discuss Adoption, Baba needs lots of prayers!!
4. (May, 2006 - Mothers Day) Mom chooses an agency CCAI, Daddy still iffy!
5. (July 4, 2006) Daddy gives me your middle name. Noelle
6. (July 30, 2006) We signed the application
7. (August 3, 2006) We mailed the application (UPS - Overnight)
8. (August 7, 2006) Daddy gets a phone call from Kathi at CCAI, We're Approved!!
We mailed our announcements that we are adopting.
9. (August 9, 2006) We mailed back our Orientation Packet (UPS - Overnight)
10. (August 11, 2006) We received Password from CCAI
11. (August 23, 2006) Took Passport Photos. Meet Penny online (Summerville CCAI Family)
12. (August 24 & 25 2006) Moma & Daddy apply for Passports
13. (September 6, 2006) Our SW, Linda (From Child of the Heart) called
14. (September 30, 2006) First Homestudy Visit
15. (October 7, 2006) Second Homestudy Visit
16. (October 20, 2006) Filed our I600A and had our Fingerprints taken!!!
17. (October 28, 2006) Our Last Home study Visit
18. Received rough draft of home study report.
19. (December 7, 2006) Received approval letter from DSS. They sent to the report over to immigration on 12/01/06.
20. (December 18, 2006) I called immigration again today! (called last Monday) Our home study was received and approved on the 11th and approved on the 15th. The very nice lady said it most likely went out on Friday, if not it would go out today!
21. (December 19, 2006) OUR I171H ARRIVED TODAY!!!!!!! PRAISE GOD!
22. (December 27 & 28th) Drove our documents to Columbia to be certified by the state.
23. (December 27, 2006) Sent Paul's employment paper to TN to be certified by the county and state.
24. (January 4, 2007) Received Paul's papers back from TN.
25. (January 5, 2007) Send all certified documents (13) to courier to deliver to Washington!
26. (January 12, 2007) Received all documents from Washington!!!!!!
27. (January 16, 2007) Mailed our Dossier to CCAI!!!!!!!
28. (January 17, 2007) Our dossier arrived at CCAI at 10:00 am!
29. (January 22, 2007) Passed critical review, on the way to Colorado.
30. (January 23, 2007) Delivered to CCAI in Colorado at 9:19 am.
31. (January 26, 2007) Our dossier is sent to CCAA.
32. (January 29, 2007) Our dossier is DELIVERED to CCAA!!!!
33. (February 11, 2007) WE ARE LID!!!!!!!!
34. (July 11, 2007) We decide to submit a Medical Checklist for the Special Needs Program
35. (July 16, 2007) Mailed our Medical Checklist to our Social Worker
36. (July 19, 2007) Received faxed copy of MCC from our SW
37. (July 19, 2007) Faxed our MCC to the waiting child program
38. (Fri, Nov 30, 2007) Today I seen the most beautiful little girl on our agency's website. I immediately called and requested her file. They had a list of families wanting to see her file. But this little girl was made for our family. I would worry about her all weekend long. Paul Ray said if it's meant to be, it will happen.
39. (Mon, Dec 3, 2007) Received a phone call from Pam asking if we still wanted to see this file, I said are you serious, yes we do. She told me again that her vision was poor, that's ok, my heart already belonged to her. We sent her file to our eye doctor.
40. (Wed, Dec 5, 2007) We called Pam around 11:30 am to let her know, this was indeed our daughter, how do we bring her home. Our beautiful little girl, Lu Xin Ming born 6/10/04.
41. (Thur, Dec 6, 2007) Received our referral package from CCAI.
42. (Mon, Dec 10, 2007) Sent our LOI to CCAI
43. (Tue, Dec 11, 2007) Our LOI was sent to China
44. (Tue, Dec 25, 2007) We received our PA (pre approval) What a Great Christmas resent!!!!
45. (Sat, Jan 5, 2007) Received Home Study Addendum
46. (Mon, Jan 7, 2007) Sent CCAI Home Study Addendum (by Wed it was sent to China)
47. (Wed, Jan 9, 2007) Received Travel Packet 1
48. (Thur, Jan 24, 2007) Being Re Fingerprinted (received notice 01/14/08)
49. (Mon, Jan 14, 2008) Received Adoption Travel Training CD from CCAI
50.
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Gracie's Care Package




I haven't sent her package off yet, but I hope to get it sent tomorrow (I guess that is today, it is 1:15 in the morning). I still need to put some more pictures in her book and label everything. I haven't been able to fit what I want to send in a regular size shoe box, so I'm going to use Paul Paul's size 13 box and hope that she gets it. Since there is no way of knowing.
We're sending her a blanket (that I slept with for 2.5 weeks), a hat and pair of gloves, a dress with a pair of leggings and a par or shoes, a Minnie Mouse doll, a Disney cell phone, a disposable camera and her photo book. I'm also enclosing some candy for the nannies and children.




Uncle Paul picked this one out. Here is Little Man with his dad. He got a shotgun (no its not real) he loves to go hunting with his daddy. This one kinda favors the Benelli his dad has.
Little Man opening his baby brother, Noah's gift. He got his backpack and a camo bottle and pacifier. Little man thought that was too cool, a "hunting pacifier".

Christmas at our house
We got some luggage tags with Gracie's pictures in them, along with a small travel pillow and blanket. Thanks Santa.
Paul Ray looking at the gift Brandon gave him. I think Brandon gave him that to annoy me!
Brandon and Lyndsey, she spent most of Christmas with us. We love having her.
My baby with his letterman jacket. They haven't finished putting everything on it yet.
Paul Ray gave me a leather backpack for our trip. Granny gave me a very nice Lady Bug charm that when you open it up, it has an angel in it. My mom gave us a new camera. We have been so blessed this year.





